Wisdom on Her Tongue

Wisdom on Her Tongue

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Wisdom on Her Tongue

Tips for Getting Back Your Weekends & Holidays & Learning to Communicate Effectively in Marriage

byLexy Sauvé
$23.95

A candid, biblically grounded manual for Christian wives who desire to grow in spiritual maturity and relational wisdom Framed by the call of Proverbs 31 and Titus 2, the book... Read more

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A candid, biblically grounded manual for Christian wives who desire to grow in spiritual maturity and relational wisdom

Framed by the call of Proverbs 31 and Titus 2, the book argues that a womans ability to communicate with grace, respect, and restraint is one of the bellwethers of a successful Christian marriage.

Does she often reach for the tools of manipulation, sarcasm, and emotional impulsivity? Or does she instead favor meekness, patience, clarity, and Christian charity? The answer will likely reveal whether a woman is building up her household—or tearing it down.

The book is structured as a series of short, pointed chapters covering topics like anger, respect, honor, and self-control, often encouraging women toward the hard, good work of cultivating a gentle and quiet spirit.

Sauvé urges readers to break generational cycles of bitterness and drama by pursuing habits that bring peace into the home. The tone of the book is both kind and direct, offering correction with warmth and Christian hope. With a Foreword and closing exhortation from her husband, Pastor Brian Sauvé, the book serves as both a rebuke and a rallying cry for women seeking to become crowns to their husbands and builders of flourishing Christian households.

About the author
Lexy Sauvé

Lexy Sauvé

Co-Host of Bright Hearth

Lexy Sauvé is married to her high school sweetheart, Pastor Brian Sauvé, and together they have seven children. She co-hosts Bright Hearth, a podcast devoted to the productive Christian household.

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Page Count
108
Dimensions
5" x 8"
Publication Date
July, 2025

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Readers overwhelmingly praise this as a practical, biblically grounded guide to communication for Christian wives—convicting yet grace-filled, with short, digestible chapters busy mothers can actually finish. Many bought multiple copies for book clubs, bridal showers, and daughters, and repeatedly call out the beautiful hardcover quality and fast NCP shipping. The author's direct, "hard truths in love" tone is a recurring highlight.

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  • 5 stars: 170 (92%)
  • 4 stars: 3 (2%)
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Hannah Nicaud

This is hands down the best, most practical, most no-nonsense book on marriage I've read. Lexy gets right to the point and I really enjoy using it as a sort of manual to check back in with frequently. Definitely a book I have been recommending to all my friends!

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Anonymous

I appreciate the author sharing her wisdom, discernment, and guidance. Even as a male reader, the book help me to understand what are good and need to be exemplified in our family and community. Chapters are not too long and doesn't get bogged down in jargons or some long monologue about certain person's experience to make a point. It made it easy for me to read when I'm busy throughout the day.

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Maile Swint

A nice reminder of how to obey the lord and love and respect our husbands so that our children know what obedience looks like. Altogether, a great book with practical wisdom to slap us back into reality to help us do what we want to do.

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Jody Hawkins

Lexie's book is a manual for every woman. It should be read by every young woman to prepare for her future. So well written!

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Emma McDermott

I have truly never read a better book on wifery and communication. Lexy is straight forward yet warm. Convicting yet encouraging. This is wisdom for the age and every Christian woman should read this book.

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Mariah Pedro

So good!! Really blessed me as a young wife and mother on how to be the wife God is calling me to be! It was so practical instead of the very vague books I’ve read on how to be a godly wife.

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Ashley P

Almost all of the advice given is good, but there are at least three chapters that basically boil down to: don’t talk right away, and these fail to justify their independent existence and should have been one chapter. The chapter on sexual warmth and faithful wounds felt out of place. There’s no coherent structure to the chapters. The author frequently references her husband as one who lives out a virtue, but it would have been more helpful to use that space in this tiny book to give an example from a well-known saint instead. The respect chapter was great, and I liked the praising your husband chapter, but it could have used more detail. As the book is on communication, I think the author should have given more positive tips for how to have a conversation or how to determine if it’s one worth having and not just how to wait to have one. With chapters written by Lexy’s husband and frequent references to him, it seems odd that Lexy is writing the book instead of Brian. Co-authoring might have made more sense. In addition, most of the advice in the book has already been given in Lexy’s podcast, so I don’t think it’s worth the money for a faithful BH listener. If you would rather read a short book than listen to the podcast, I would be more likely to recommend it.

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Eric B

I hope all the women in my life read this book.

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Christine H

Wonderful book. I devoured it in less than 24hr! So wish these practical tips were more readily taught in the church.

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Rhett N

This is one of the best books I've ever read about being a wife. Amazing practical wisdom that you can implement today. It is also beautifully bound!!

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Ky S

Excellent and great for my Wife

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Karen M

I love this book. It is now the one that I will be giving to all of my friends so that they can pass them out to young wives and moms today. It does seem that it takes a long time from order to delivery though.

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Hannah J

So refreshing to find true biblical principles and practical guidance for Christian women. A great read for new brides and seasoned wives alike.

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Jereya S

Very fast shipping time! This book is beautiful, and I love the quality! I can't wait to read it!

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Kira P

Not only is the book amazing, the costumer service at NCP is unmatched.

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Lucas D

Great book. The hardback is phenomenal. People don’t make books that are great anymore!

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Kyle M

Excellent job all around NCP! Ordered as a gift for my wife and she is loving the book. We both appreciate the classic binding style and quality. One word of caution fellas, if you order this as a gift it comes in NCP packaging and might give away the surprise if your wife collects the mail that day, so beware!

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Chloe F

This book is the most practical on marriage I’ve ever read. I will be rereading every year, Lord willing. NCP was amazing to work with—I wanted to get this sent to a missionary friend and they worked with me to expedite it to make sure it reached her.

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Missy S

Fast shipping and I started reading it right away! It’s an excellent book!!

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Nancy B

Very disappointed. Beautiful cover, disappointing shallow content.

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Lisa S

Although I’m in a different theological camp, I love listening to the suavé’s And I love their passion for building healthy Christian homes. Much needed in the church for such a time as this! This book aids in doing just that!

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Melinda H

The Bulk order discount really helped. I read this book and loved it so had to get more for friends so we could do a book club! Excited for many fruitful discussions. Thanks Lexy!

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Dryden J

My wife and I have greatly enjoyed reading this book every night before bed. Book shipped quickly and are in pristine conduction. Highly recommend.

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Kathleen C

It has great concepts to it, but her application advice is concerning and unhealthy. I would not recommend this to other women to read.

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